Check out this interesting article I found on the links
between rest, relaxation and stress from the Stress Management website.
When many people are faced by a stressful situation at work,
they respond with complete commitment, by working intensely hard at resolving
it. To do this, they may work all hours, cancel vacations and cut back on
sleep, all to make more time to tackle the problem.
If this is short-lived, then negative effects will be
minimal and success will often be spectacular. However, if this level of hard
work is sustained for a long time without relief, people increasingly risk
ill-health and
We rest and sleep because we need to. Rest is what we do to let stress subside. Rest at the end of
a day, and at the end of a week, helps us to calm down.
Doing fun things that we enjoy in our leisure time
compensates us for the stress we experience at work, bringing some balance back
into life. This is particularly important if we routinely experience unpleasant
levels of stress.
A good way of getting rest and reducing long-term stress is
to take up an enjoyable, non-rushed sport or hobby. If you spend all your
working day competing, then can be very pleasant to be completely
non-competitive for some of your free time. Slow physical activities such as
sailing or walking are good for this, as are others where there is little or no
pressure for performance. Reading novels, watching television or socializing
can also be very restful.
Vacations are particularly important, and you really do need
to take these. Where possible, take two weeks off rather than just one week: A
common observation that people make is that they really do not start to relax
properly until the end of their first week of vacation.
Make sure that you take your vacations and that you use them
to relax. Also, make sure that you get enough good quality rest during the
week, so that you can keep on enjoying life to its fullest.
On average, people need around eight hours sleep a night
(although this can vary between three hours and eleven hours, depending on the
person and his or her age).
If we are regularly short of sleep, then our concentration
and our effectiveness suffer and our energy levels decline. We have all seen
and experienced this.
This diminishes our effectiveness in our job, and can therefore
increase stress: As our concentration wanders, we start to make mistakes. As
our energy declines, we become less proactive in what we do, reducing our
control over events. This means that a situation that is already difficult and
stressful can become worse, needing even more sacrifice to bring it back under
control.
Make sure you get enough sleep. If you have become used to
being tired all the time, you will be amazed by how sharp and energetic you
will feel once you start sleeping normally.
Tip:
When we are stressed and anxious, we can often find it difficult to get to sleep as thoughts keep on whizzing through our heads, stopping us from relaxing enough to fall asleep.
When we are stressed and anxious, we can often find it difficult to get to sleep as thoughts keep on whizzing through our heads, stopping us from relaxing enough to fall asleep.
If you find this is the case:
· Make sure that you stop doing mentally demanding work several hours before
coming to bed – give your brain time to calm down before you try to sleep.
· Try reading a calming, undemanding book for a few minutes, again to relax your body, tire your eyes and help you forget about the things that are worrying you.
· Write persistent thoughts and worries down in a notebook and then put them out of your mind. Review the notebook in the morning and take action if appropriate.
· Keep the same bedtime. Let your body and mind get used to a predictable routine.
· Cut back on caffeine and alcohol. Some people find that they sleep badly if they drink coffee or cola after 4pm. Others find that if they drink alcohol to excess, they wake up in the middle of the night and cannot get back to sleep.
· Try reading a calming, undemanding book for a few minutes, again to relax your body, tire your eyes and help you forget about the things that are worrying you.
· Write persistent thoughts and worries down in a notebook and then put them out of your mind. Review the notebook in the morning and take action if appropriate.
· Keep the same bedtime. Let your body and mind get used to a predictable routine.
· Cut back on caffeine and alcohol. Some people find that they sleep badly if they drink coffee or cola after 4pm. Others find that if they drink alcohol to excess, they wake up in the middle of the night and cannot get back to sleep.
For more information on this topic and others, log onto http://www.mindtools.com/stress/Defenses/Rest.htm
Here are a few things I have found that work for me when trying to wind down and get a good night's sleep.
1) Turn off the tv - I found I fell asleep faster and had a more restful sleep when I wasn't concentrating on what was on television.
2) Enjoy a cup of hot water and lemon - This simple beverage always seems to relax me.
3) Enjoy a hobby - I have always found that ending my day doing something I enjoy always puts me in a good mood.
Need help finding a hobby? Try baking or yoga. Check out these blogs, they have lots of great ideas!
http://alanatoner.blogspot.ca/ http://thebakingsheets.blogspot.ca/
1) Turn off the tv - I found I fell asleep faster and had a more restful sleep when I wasn't concentrating on what was on television.
2) Enjoy a cup of hot water and lemon - This simple beverage always seems to relax me.
3) Enjoy a hobby - I have always found that ending my day doing something I enjoy always puts me in a good mood.
Need help finding a hobby? Try baking or yoga. Check out these blogs, they have lots of great ideas!
http://alanatoner.blogspot.ca/ http://thebakingsheets.blogspot.ca/